Dela's Musing

Dela's Musinghttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/en-EUhourly82000-01-01T12:00+00:00Dela's Musinghttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/25/9b5aeea84ec21a7854f53393e4e1a6_160x200.jpgI dont care what they say I am in lovehttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/11/07/i_dont_care_what_they_say_i_am_in_love~3260392/2007-11-07T17:41:55+01:00 I am listening to leoana lewis single She goes on about 'you cut me up and i keep bleeding ,I dont care what they say I am in love with you ' see this my problem how do the hell do u hate urself to the point and stay with somone who makes u bleed. Seriously ok maybe i am overeacting to the song but those are the most stupid (stupidest) lyrics ever ...pet peeve <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/11/07/i_dont_care_what_they_say_i_am_in_love~3260392/#comments">Comments</a> I am listening to leoana lewis single
She goes on about 'you cut me up and i keep bleeding ,I dont care what they say I am in love with you '
see this my problem how do the hell do u hate urself to the point and stay with somone who makes u bleed.
Seriously ok maybe i am overeacting to the song but those are the most stupid (stupidest) lyrics ever
...pet peeve

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]]>I want I really really wanthttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/10/31/i_want_i_really_really_want~3223296/2007-10-31T11:18:47+01:00 A business analyst is an information technology worker who improves the efficiency and productivity of business operations. The business analyst achieves this by closely analyzing the business processes in an organization for inefficiencies. --This is what i want do i am excited just thinking it through The first step is finding out as much as possible how i can get into the industry and what i need to do to get my foot in the door . Here we go !!!!! <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/10/31/i_want_i_really_really_want~3223296/#comments">Comments</a> A business analyst is an information technology worker who improves the efficiency and productivity of business operations. The business analyst achieves this by closely analyzing the business processes in an organization for inefficiencies.
--This is what i want do i am excited just thinking it through
The first step is finding out as much as possible how i can get into the industry and what i need to do to get my foot in the door .
Here we go !!!!!

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]]>What I Wanthttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/10/23/what_i_want~3182961/2007-10-23T16:01:31+02:00 What I Want . I got ito IT because i love using my brain.I love being able to think through an issue coming out with a solution and seeing an idea become a reality . now That its all done (school) I havent had any doubt about the type of environment i am interested in working in , I want to work as an IT Business analyst .I want to work in an environment where i have to continually look at the business environment and develop ways of adding value to the orgaisation. i want to work in a evironment thats allows and encourages innovation . I would love a job that enables me to travel and meet people because i love to travel and meet new faces. I love the stress.I cant take a calm ,slow paced environment. I guess thats why i love the environment i am i now .Everythig u do is live .Any change you make goes live that means one mistake some ones screen crashes or a entire campiagn hangs .Oh i love it . The only thing is I dont get to travel never will if i stay . I will never get to meet clients. Though i love the fact that my technical skills are being developed . I proably need a city job london sounds like a good place to start . I have to Start applying for new jobs soon. I am really praying and working to get what i want ........ <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/10/23/what_i_want~3182961/#comments">Comments</a> What I Want .
I got ito IT because i love using my brain.I love being able to think through an issue coming out with a solution and seeing an idea become a reality .
now That its all done (school)
I havent had any doubt about the type of environment i am interested in working in ,
I want to work as an IT Business analyst .I want to work in an environment where i have to continually look at the business environment and develop ways of adding value to the orgaisation.
i want to work in a evironment thats allows and encourages innovation .
I would love a job that enables me to travel and meet people because i love to travel and meet new faces.
I love the stress.I cant take a calm ,slow paced environment.
I guess thats why i love the environment i am i now .Everythig u do is live .Any change you make goes live that means one mistake some ones screen crashes or a entire campiagn hangs .Oh i love it .
The only thing is I dont get to travel never will if i stay .
I will never get to meet clients.
Though i love the fact that my technical skills are being developed .
I proably need a city job london sounds like a good place to start . I have to Start applying for new jobs soon.
I am really praying and working to get what i want ........

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]]>Tired,Hungary,Irritablehttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/04/18/tired_hungary_irritable~2113936/2007-04-18T12:14:53+02:00 I am tired,I am sleep deprived,I am hungary,I am generally not very happy .. To top it all i dont get to leave for atleast an hour i cant wait for a nice lunch and peace and quiet. <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/04/18/tired_hungary_irritable~2113936/#comments">Comments</a> I am tired,I am sleep deprived,I am hungary,I am generally not very happy ..
To top it all i dont get to leave for atleast an hour
i cant wait for a nice lunch and peace and quiet.

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]]>Achievement through visionhttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/22/achievement_through_vision~1786003/2007-02-22T15:49:59+01:00 I got this from an email a while back.It relevant for this time of my life so here goes: Follow*Your*Dreams do What*U*Love*2 do To the one who Sees his vision To the child who Lives his dreams * May the thoughts That U will picture Help U come to see * LIFE is what YOU CHOOSE YOU'RE THE ONE To DECIDE what YOU'RE GONNA BE* Don't worry about What some may say GIVE*IT*YOUR*BEST * GO ON, Follow Your Dreams & DO IT LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL TODAY MATTERS:LIVE IT ,LOVE IT <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/22/achievement_through_vision~1786003/#comments">Comments</a> I got this from an email a while back.It relevant for this time of my life so here goes:

Follow*Your*Dreams
do What*U*Love*2 do

To the one who
Sees his vision
To the child who
Lives his dreams
*
May the thoughts
That U will picture
Help U come to see
*
LIFE is what
YOU CHOOSE
YOU'RE THE ONE
To DECIDE what
YOU'RE GONNA BE*

Don't worry about
What some may say
GIVE*IT*YOUR*BEST
*
GO ON,
Follow Your Dreams & DO IT

LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL TODAY MATTERS:LIVE IT ,LOVE IT

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]]>My Visionhttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/17/title~1754455/2007-02-17T01:05:12+01:00 Its 31st December 2007 and this is a log of how the year 2007 went. <a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/media/media_item.php?item_ID=1176345" title="threed"><img src="http://data2.blog.de/media/345/1176345_be3d79497f_m.png" alt="threed" vspace="5" hspace="5"></a> Its being a great year,wonderful beautfully great year God has been Good to Me.A lot has being learnt, alot has being acheived.I am Happy. It seems I am well on my way to Personal and Financial freedom. Never felt better. I graduated top of my Class with an Msc in Distributed Systems(Software Enginering).The graduation was in November Mum and Dad were around to for the ceremony. You should have seen them They were so proud so ,soooo Happy. My Dad Kept telling everyone He was my Dad,My mum just beside herself.I dont think i have ever seen her smile so broadly. My Final year project was a big hit(A money maker apparently).I am being offered an obscene out of money for licensing rights.<img src="/img/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="middle" border="0"> Uni year has being a blast,Many great friends,Friendship that i hope will last always. Oh before i forget my summer placement went really well . Its a great multinational innovative technology and they want me back with desperation. I jump up and down my bed everytime i think of how much they are offering me yearly. Emefa was here for the summer we went back home together.I didnt realised how much i missed it till I arrived at the airport. Its the greatest country in the world. Winnie and Gifty are getting married soon so will have to go back home for the weddings. I am sooo grateful to God for this year.It didnt start out right.I have made mistakes i realise well...Its all a learning process but i made it .Its everything I wanted and more I cant wait .....Its my year<img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"> <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/17/title~1754455/#comments">Comments</a> Its 31st December 2007 and this is a log of how the year 2007 went.

Its being a great year,wonderful beautfully great year God has been Good to Me.A lot has being learnt, alot has being acheived.I am Happy. It seems I am well on my way to Personal and Financial freedom.
Never felt better.
I graduated top of my Class with an Msc in Distributed Systems(Software Enginering).The graduation was in November Mum and Dad were around to for the ceremony.
You should have seen them They were so proud so ,soooo Happy.
My Dad Kept telling everyone He was my Dad,My mum just beside herself.I dont think i have ever seen her smile so broadly.
My Final year project was a big hit(A money maker apparently).I am being offered an obscene out of money for licensing rights.

Uni year has being a blast,Many great friends,Friendship that i hope will last always.
Oh before i forget my summer placement went really well .

Its a great multinational innovative technology and they want me back with desperation.
I jump up and down my bed everytime i think of how much they are offering me yearly.

Emefa was here for the summer we went back home together.I didnt realised how much i missed it till I arrived at the airport.
Its the greatest country in the world.

Winnie and Gifty are getting married soon so will have to go back home for the weddings.

I am sooo grateful to God for this year.It didnt start out right.I have made mistakes i realise well...Its all a learning process but i made it .Its everything I wanted and more

I cant wait .....Its my year

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]]>Lol I was always knew I was a cynichttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/11/lol_i_was_always_knew_i_was_a_cynic~1718871/2007-02-11T04:12:19+01:00 I took an online test and these were my results lol i couldnt have said it better myself.. You Are A Realist <img src="http://images.blogthings.com/areyouromanticorrealisticquiz/realist.jpg" height="100" width="100"> When it comes to romance, you tend to take a realistic approach. You believe that love takes time, and it's something you have to work hard for. A bit cynical, over the top romance tends to get under your skin. Your heart is difficult to win ... but it's totally worth it. <a href="http://www.blogthings.com/areyouromanticorrealisticquiz/">Are You Romantic or Realistic?</a> <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/02/11/lol_i_was_always_knew_i_was_a_cynic~1718871/#comments">Comments</a> I took an online test and these were my results lol
i couldnt have said it better myself..
You Are A Realist

When it comes to romance, you tend to take a realistic approach.
You believe that love takes time, and it's something you have to work hard for.
A bit cynical, over the top romance tends to get under your skin.
Your heart is difficult to win ... but it's totally worth it.
Are You Romantic or Realistic?

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]]>Subversive Virginity(borrowed title)http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/26/subversive_virginity_borrowed_title~1623548/2007-01-26T01:58:01+01:00 I found this great article by Sarah E. Hinlicky, a writer living in New York City, is an Editorial Assistant at First Things. and i thought i mignt just put excerpts up .I am not sure about intellectual property rights so anyways.. and No I really dont care if u dont agree I do Virginity But there is more to it than mere escape. There is an undeniable appeal in virginity, something that eludes the resentful feminist’s contemptuous label of “prude.” A virgin woman is an unattainable object of desire, and it is precisely her unattainability that increases her desirability. Feminism has told a lie in defense of its own promiscuity, namely, that there is no sexual power to be found in virginity. On the contrary, virgin sexuality has extraordinary and unusual power. There’s no second-guessing a virgin’s motives: her strength comes from a source beyond her transitory whims. It is sexuality dedicated to hope, to the future, to marital love, to children and to God. Her virginity is, at the same time, a statement of her mature independence from men. It allows a woman to become a whole person in her own right, without needing a man either to revolt against or to complete what she lacks. It is very simple, really: no matter how wonderful, charming, handsome, intelligent, thoughtful, rich or persuasive he is, he simply cannot have her. A virgin is perfectly unpossessable. I sincerely hope that virginity will not be a lifetime project for me. Quite the contrary, my subversive commitment to virginity serves as preparation for another commitment, for loving one man completely and exclusively. <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/26/subversive_virginity_borrowed_title~1623548/#comments">Comments</a> I found this great article by Sarah E. Hinlicky, a writer living in New York City, is an Editorial Assistant at First Things.
and i thought i mignt just put excerpts up .I am not sure about intellectual property rights so anyways.. and No I really dont care if u dont agree I do

Virginity

But there is more to it than mere escape. There is an undeniable appeal in virginity, something that eludes the resentful feminist’s contemptuous label of “prude.” A virgin woman is an unattainable object of desire, and it is precisely her unattainability that increases her desirability.

Feminism has told a lie in defense of its own promiscuity, namely, that there is no sexual power to be found in virginity.

On the contrary, virgin sexuality has extraordinary and unusual power.
There’s no second-guessing a virgin’s motives: her strength comes from a source beyond her transitory whims.

It is sexuality dedicated to hope, to the future, to marital love, to children and to God. Her virginity is, at the same time, a statement of her mature independence from men.

It allows a woman to become a whole person in her own right, without needing a man either to revolt against or to complete what she lacks.

It is very simple, really: no matter how wonderful, charming, handsome, intelligent, thoughtful, rich or persuasive he is, he simply cannot have her. A virgin is perfectly unpossessable.

I sincerely hope that virginity will not be a lifetime project for me. Quite the contrary, my subversive commitment to virginity serves as preparation for another commitment, for loving one man completely and exclusively.

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]]>Women=Enigmahttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/03/women_enigma~1507894/2007-01-03T02:01:53+01:00 This is the last of my unserious blogs i promise no more after this.I was watching a television programme after watching a scene of someone who suspiciously reminds me what i might turn out to be in 10 years time and then i asked my self this question what is it about us women,everyone woman says she wants a protector someone who is strong enough to stand up for and with her then why is it that is it we also want to be in control at the same time Thinking about it i dont think we can have both at the same time..... Any one out there with any ideas on this topic.... <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/03/women_enigma~1507894/#comments">Comments</a> This is the last of my unserious blogs i promise no more after this.I was watching a television programme after watching a scene of someone who suspiciously reminds me what i might turn out to be in 10 years time and then i asked my self this question what is it about us women,everyone woman says she wants a protector someone who is strong enough to stand up for and with her then why is it that is it we also want to be in control at the same time

Thinking about it i dont think we can have both at the same time.....
Any one out there with any ideas on this topic....

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]]>Finally the Holiday is Overhttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/02/finally_the_holiday_is_over~1503715/2007-01-02T04:50:31+01:00 There is a lot of truth in the Fact that i should not be left alone with nothing to concentrate my energy and mind on for less than 3 secs.I can never really handle it very well.I continually prove this theory right in my life.......... I needs to have a focus working towards a goal most times or else it just doesnt work. Anyways I had a lovely christmas I spent it with a family.There were soo nice they went out of their way to make me feel at home.Different personalities in one home i love it, it was really interesting. i really didnt miss home that much untill new years night when it begun to feel like secondary school all over again.But this i will be grateful for: a friend called exactly when i needed someone to talk to , <a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/media/media_item.php?item_ID=1069847" title="frpic"><img src="http://data2.blog.de/media/847/1069847_f0beae2e14_s.jpg" alt="frpic" vspace="5" hspace="5"></a>I believe i am one the fortunate ones: I have friends whom though am far from are still there for me. The great thing its over school starts soon and i will be too busy and thats the way i like it. oh and i forgot it is a new year isnt it .I dont have any resolutions,I havent done any soul searching,havent reflected on the past year nor have I laid out plans for the year.I dont think i will,I feel am in a transititonal place instead of a new start so will just leave things as they are. But this I want for the new year not to feel like i am in transition but to feel more in control and more focussed and God willing my dreams on course,no diversions no loss of focus.I think I am much happier that way. All said and done I am where I supposed to be at the right time so come to think of it I am on course <img src="/img/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="middle" border="0"><img src="/img/smilies/icon_wave.gif" alt=":wave:" class="middle" border="0"> <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2007/01/02/finally_the_holiday_is_over~1503715/#comments">Comments</a> There is a lot of truth in the Fact that i should not be left alone with nothing to concentrate my energy and mind on for less than 3 secs.I can never really handle it very well.I continually prove this theory right in my life..........
I needs to have a focus working towards a goal most times or else it just doesnt work.
Anyways I had a lovely christmas I spent it with a family.There were soo nice they went out of their way to make me feel at home.Different personalities in one home i love it, it was really interesting.
i really didnt miss home that much untill new years night when it begun to feel like secondary school all over again.But this i will be grateful for: a friend called exactly when i needed someone to talk to ,

I believe i am one the fortunate ones: I have friends whom though am far from are still there for me.
The great thing its over school starts soon and i will be too busy and thats the way i like it.
oh and i forgot it is a new year isnt it .I dont have any resolutions,I havent done any soul searching,havent reflected on the past year nor have I laid out plans for the year.I dont think i will,I feel am in a transititonal place instead of a new start so will just leave things as they are.
But this I want for the new year not to feel like i am in transition but to feel more in control and more focussed and God willing my dreams on course,no diversions no loss of focus.I think I am much happier that way.
All said and done I am where I supposed to be at the right time so come to think of it I am on course

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]]>Just Me thinking out aloudhttp://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2006/12/21/just_ms_thinking_out_aloud~1463142/2006-12-21T04:46:51+01:00 First Time away from home awy from Family.I am loving it but am also missing them badly. My First christmas without family.I think am handling it preety well. The past few months have being a roller coaster ride for me mentally and emotionally .I guess it would wouldnt it ? I have great flat mates Claire,louise,Sasha,Habib and Ben.They are great and have helped me settle in better.I grateful to God for that. We have some fun outings and not so fun outings (techno is not my thing) <a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/media/media_item.php?item_ID=1043290" title="DSCF0401"><img src="http://data2.blog.de/media/290/1043290_82d94414c3_s.jpg" alt="DSCF0401" vspace="5" hspace="5"></a> I am indeed blessed with an opportunity and what i do with it is my choice. I am destined for success what i do now determines how it all turns out so watch this space world. Delali Cofie is around!!!! <a href="http://etheldc.blog.co.uk/2006/12/21/just_ms_thinking_out_aloud~1463142/#comments">Comments</a> First Time away from home awy from Family.I am loving it but am also missing them badly.
My First christmas without family.I think am handling it preety well.
The past few months have being a roller coaster ride for me mentally and emotionally .I guess it would wouldnt it ?
I have great flat mates Claire,louise,Sasha,Habib and Ben.They are great and have helped me settle in better.I grateful to God for that.
We have some fun outings and not so fun outings (techno is not my thing)

I am indeed blessed with an opportunity and what i do with it is my choice.
I am destined for success what i do now determines how it all turns out so watch this space world.
Delali Cofie is around!!!!

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